part 105

jumu’ah mubarak everyone!
Rem me, my family and foreveramessup in your special duas 😉


I sat there once salma had left trying to take in what she’d just told me….

Was my best friend really going to accept goolams proposal?I’m honestly so proud of her for not being so narrow minded and for allowing him the opportunity to change his life….

Well just incase you’re wondering what the aalims discussed with her…

Well you see..goolam WAS gay at one stage….yes his family did find out..but unlike many other people who justify their actions and don’t give a damn about what’s right and wrong…goolam did!..

He regretted deeply and sought guidance from the wise ulama(scholars) of his locality….

So no his family was not merely getting him married off as the rumours had it…they were not dumping their problems on anyone else…it was goolams decision to find a good wife, one with islamic morals that can help him get closer to Allah….

He’s tried for quite some time and has been straight for the past 2 years now…and he regrets deeply…the aalim from rustenburg mentioned that in these 2 years, there hasn’t been a single day that goolam has ever missed a single salaah with jama’ah(congregation)…

He spends any extra time trying to study deen and has also taken to doing hifz(memorising) of the holy quraan….

So the fact that he came to see salma wearing a kurta wasn’t actually a show….as we wrongly accused him of (hide)…but that has become his daily dressing….

As for his facebook pics etc that we seen….they asked salma to check when the was the last time it was actually updated….and that was 2 years ago…he gave up facebook, his evil habit and has chosen the path of Allah and his beloved rasool…..can we actually say that we are better than him?

As far as I remember hearing an aalim mention oneday….that when a person changes his evil ways and turns to Allah..not only is he fogiven by Allah but his evil actions are turned into good for him…and on the day of qiyaamah when this person asks for who are all these good written..it will be said to him that these are infact your evil actions that you have repented from and have now turned into good for you…

Here we were..judging this poor soul who could be more dearer in the sight of Allah because of his repentance while we are rotting away in sin….

Imagine if we were still living in the time of the bani israaeel?their every sin was engraved on their front door for everone to see….

We are so lucky that Allah has hidden our sins…and the wisdom behind that is that Allah wants us to repent and change our evil ways before we are disgraced for the sins we commit….

So salma asked for 3 more days to make up her mind…she continued her istikhaara and came over to tell me that she was going to give her answer as yes…and also to ask my opinion…

As much as I wanted her to be with aqeel…..Allah knows best and I think she’s making the right decision by going against what society would want and doing this solely to please Allah….how can Allah not give her barakah in her life…?

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28 thoughts on “part 105

  1. If you haven’t yet read part 104..please refer to the comments section of part 104…I’m really soRry for the inconvenience but unfortunately I’m going to have to be posting in the comments section until wordpress is sorted out…
    jumu’ah mubarak everyone!
    Rem me, my family and foreveramessup in your special duas 😉
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    I sat there once salma had left trying to take in what she’d just told me….

    Was my best friend really going to accept goolams proposal?I’m honestly so proud of her for not being so narrow minded and for allowing him the opportunity to change his life….

    Well just incase you’re wondering what the aalims discussed with her…

    Well you see..goolam WAS gay at one stage….yes his family did find out..but unlike many other people who justify their actions and don’t give a damn about what’s right and wrong…goolam did!..

    He regretted deeply and sought guidance from the wise ulama(scholars) of his locality….

    So no his family was not merely getting him married off as the rumours had it…they were not dumping their problems on anyone else…it was goolams decision to find a good wife, one with islamic morals that can help him get closer to Allah….

    He’s tried for quite some time and has been straight for the past 2 years now…and he regrets deeply…the aalim from rustenburg mentioned that in these 2 years, there hasn’t been a single day that goolam has ever missed a single salaah with jama’ah(congregation)…

    He spends any extra time trying to study deen and has also taken to doing hifz(memorising) of the holy quraan….

    So the fact that he came to see salma wearing a kurta wasn’t actually a show….as we wrongly accused him of (hide)…but that has become his daily dressing….

    As for his facebook pics etc that we seen….they asked salma to check when the was the last time it was actually updated….and that was 2 years ago…he gave up facebook, his evil habit and has chosen the path of Allah and his beloved rasool…..can we actually say that we are better than him?

    As far as I remember hearing an aalim mention oneday….that when a person changes his evil ways and turns to Allah..not only is he fogiven by Allah but his evil actions are turned into good for him…and on the day of qiyaamah when this person asks for who are all these good written..it will be said to him that these are infact your evil actions that you have repented from and have now turned into good for you…

    Here we were..judging this poor soul who could be more dearer in the sight of Allah because of his repentance while we are rotting away in sin….

    Imagine if we were still living in the time of the bani israaeel?their every sin was engraved on their front door for everone to see….

    We are so lucky that Allah has hidden our sins…and the wisdom behind that is that Allah wants us to repent and change our evil ways before we are disgraced for the sins we commit….

    So salma asked for 3 more days to make up her mind…she continued her istikhaara and came over to tell me that she was going to give her answer as yes…and also to ask my opinion…

    As much as I wanted her to be with aqeel…..Allah knows best and I think she’s making the right decision by going against what society would want and doing this solely to please Allah….how can Allah not give her barakah in her life…?

  2. sister/in/islam says:

    Awww such good news abt Ghulaarm Bhaai !!!
    If اللَّهُ wants 2 giv hidayat den no1 can stop !!

    So happy for Salma , hope she finds happiness – and der is some1 very good out der for Aqeel also ……….

    جَزَاكَ اللهُ خَيْرًا 
 ┉┈┈┈♡♡ -̶̯͡┈̥⌣̊°˚

  3. A says:

    جزاك الله خيرا for the lovely post. So true that we ready to judge what we see on social networks and heresay n also everyone is bad bcoz of something they might have did in the past
    A beautiful saying ‘ every sinner has a future and every pious person had a past’
    Sooo Salma going to marry Goolam ‘crying face’ hope Aqeel finds someone who deserves him ان شاء الله

  4. Lailah says:

    Aslkm. Just started following your blog. But can’t seem to get to the beginning(part one). Please help. 🙂 shukran

    • Wslm…

      Try going to archives and go to january and then february…
      Or try this link foreveramessup.wordpress.com/just-the-beginning
      So for any part you need to find, type foreveramessup.wordpress.com/part-(enter whatever part you’re looking for)
      Hope this helps..if not..let me know…

  5. FATZ says:

    Aww so happy 4 salma. Great post . Whom so ever Allah has guided no 1 can mislead. N whom so ever Allah has mislead no 1 can guide. May allah make us amongs those who r guided. Altough I wud b happy if salma cud be with Aqeel. But ders diff sum1 out der 4 him. He’s so sweet

  6. zana says:

    Its so good to hear when people become better muslims. And change for allah.

    Who ever us good for salma must come in her life. Looking forward to all that’s still to come.

    Believers are like Jewels. They sparkle in ALLAH’S care. Fortunate are those who find them, for they are very rare! May ALLAH SWT always keep you sparkling, grant you good Health & Happiness & the best in this world & the Akhira. Jumah Mubarak.

  7. Sister A. says:

    Really gud 2 hear abt Goolam’s effort 2 change 4 da better. Hope dis is going 2 inspire others who find demselves °̩и similar situations. Never giv up hope. Wen a person mks a firm intention 2 change 4 da better ,den turns 2 ﷲ Ta’aala 4 assistance & mks da correct effort, ﷲ ‘s help will definately cum 2 dat person. Stil wish dat Salma & Aqeel wud Εn∂ up 2gether as der was a spark bet dem. Dey did lyk each other. But I guess wats meant 2 b is wat will cum 2 pass. جُمُعَةُ مُبَارَك ❤

  8. Binte Ahmed says:

    Noooooooooo 😥 I wantd salma n aqeel to end up with each other!!!
    But in a way its good shes bein so open minded n givin the guy a chance..its risky but hopefully shel find happiness whoeva she ends up with…

    • Wslm.
      Their sites are both not working…if you have facebook then you can read their episodes on facebook….I don’t have facebook so I’ve just been googling the episodes I needed and found it..the last I’ve read was episode 124….hope this helps..

  9. a95r says:

    So it looks like its a ‘Yes’ for Goolam…. Lots of people r disappointed… But why?? He’s changed, who knows, he might just be Mr Right for Salma.
    “Perhaps you dislike a thing whilst it is good for you, and perhaps you love a thing whilst it is bad for you, and Allah knows and you do not know”
    Make istikhaarah Salma, Allah will place khair (goodness) in whatever you choose.
    Lol, now I’m talking to fictional characters…. As long as I’m not talking to myself 😉 -though I do that sometimes :p. Lol.
    Its so good that Goolam has changed and that Salma is willing to take that risk and not worry about what people will say. Try to do what’s right, do the best you can, make dua and put your trust in Allah, Allah will take care of the rest.
    Thanks author, you can’t post properly but you still posting in the comments for us جزاك اللهُ خيراً ({})

    • Ameen..I can’t just leave you guys hanging…where there’s a will..there’s a way….and I truly have a will and desire to continue and since I’ve tried everything…this seems to be my only option…but I’m not complaining..alhamdulillah…Allah has still given me this much of an opportunity…..the ayah you’ve mentioned will inshallah be posted in the inspirations page if it does get sorted inshallah…

  10. Sumayya Jamal says:

    Once again amaaaaazing post!!!
    Happy Goolam Bhai changed for the better, but really wanted Salma and Aqeel!
    Can’t wait for the next post, thank you sooooo much!!

  11. Miss author, i think you deserve a reward for reaching your goals, a reward like an extra post because you reached your goal of 200 followers and for reaching 80 000 views and for reaching 90 000 views….. and because we are loyal and loving your posts so 4 posts? Pretty pretty prettttyyyyy please

    • Lol…firstly….I’m not a miss..lol…I’m a mrs….lol

      Secondly thanks for rewarding me….I’ll be waiting for ur posts 😉

      Thirdly I rem giving you guys an extra post for 200 followers…

      Fourth…I gave you 2 posts today…1 was for reaching 80 000 views…lol

      And fifth…hmmmm…let’s see if anything comes to mind….my weekends are usually calm so maybe….just maybe….I’ll give u guys sum extra posts…

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