part 12:

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Authors note:

Just wana say jazakallah to everyone of you for following,reading and commenting on this blog…we’ve reached 50 followers….welcome aboard TURKEY…this post is dedicated to the readers in TURKEY,ZAMBIA,UK and SA…

 

Special post!

Advice from faaiza herself…

 

Dear best friends….that’s what you guys are to me….you’re traveling on this journey with me…you all know what’s been going on in my head…when I’m happy, when I’m sad, when I’m thrilled and even when I’m swearing someone…

 

Because you’re my bestest bestest friends in the whole WIDe world…I’d like to give you some advice…

 

For those of you who are 10 years old or younger:

Enjoy you childhood…be a child, run,play,skip, hop,jump, scream….but be a child….once you’re grown up, you will regret not making the most of your childhood…forget about the TV, i-pads,cellphones,playstations etc etc…play outdoors..learn through play. Be active and have fun doing silly but innocent things…love your parents and respect them. They may shout,scold or even hit you at times….its only because they love you dearly and want the best for you…..

 

To the teenagers:

Peer pressure sucks…you don’t always have to fit in with the rest..life is not what the west makes it to be..its not all a fairytale…its not all about looking good and name brand..its not always about the hottest chick or the most gorgeous dude….there are 7 categories of people who will be under the shade of Allah on the day of qiyaamah…one of them is a youth who spends his time in the remembrance of Allah…remember always that your past will haunt you forever….

 

To those who are of marriageable age:

As excited as you may be to have a fairytale wedding, remember that marriage is not about your wedding day…but marriage is about what comes after….choose a spouse not depending on his looks or wealth, but rather on the amazing qualities he has..not the qualities he portrays, but rather the qualities others speak of…if even one person gives bad reference…its not because they’re jealous…its because they care and don’t want you to mess up the rest of your life…marriage is a HUGE step..its much sacrifice, mostly on the womans side…we have to give in so many times…make sure we understand what we’re getting ourselves into before time…

 

To those who have already fulfilled half their imaan:

Marriage is equal to sabr and sabr is equal to jannah…don’t try to please your spouse, your inlaws or anyone else….try your utmost to please your creator instead..and in that way..the world too will be pleased with you…once we’ve accepted to be the spouse of another..remember that there’s no turning back…my example is this..we have a mother..and no matter what we do…she’ll always be our mother..there’s no way you can change that…in the same way….the person is now your spouse…there should be no way of changing that..they have to be your spouse for the rest of your life…prove your love everyday…appreciate eachother..fulfill eachothers rights but don’t worry about your rights not being fulfilled…Allah will sort that out…

 

To those suffering in their marriage:

There’s hope…as long as there’s an Allah..there’s hope….we don’t control anything or anyone….Allah does….ask him to change your situation to a better one…and I…faaiza….testify that Allah is listening and will definitely change your situation…but you need to believe and have total conviction…you also need to make the effort…divorce is not always the option…running away from your problems also is not always the option…suicide is definitely not an option..confiding in others besides your spouse about what goes on behind closed doors is not an option either…communicate!understand!care!accommodate!it will get better inshalah…

 

 

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10 thoughts on “part 12:

  1. sister/in/islam says:

    ‎​السلام عليكم
    Absolutely beautiful advice – as Hazrat Ml Yunus Patel (RA) used to say ” Do for اللَّهُ pleasure and اللَّهُ will give u from HIS treasure !! ”
    How great and merciful is our اللَّهُ !!! And who wudnt want from اللَّهُ treasure – we cannot even imagine what treasures our اللَّهُ can give us ! ‎​اَللَّهُ اَكْبَر
    May we all strive to please اللَّهُ first and den everything will fall in2 place – ‎​إنشاءالله
    جزاك اللهُ خيراً

    • True…some of us only turn to Allah when we have the best and turn away when in. Difficulty..while some of us turn to Allah only in times of difficulty and forget him in times of ease

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